Darn Dating Services!

Ok so I fell for it, I went and joined a BBW (even though I hate that term) dating site.

Trying to meet some new people and connect with others like myself, Sadly I have removed my account the very day I created it!
Why? oohh I will tell you why.
They wanted me to pay $10 a month to find compatible people to meet and chat with.
I couldn’t even look at any mail I was receiving because they wanted me to PAY money to do that.
I do not think ANYONE no matter what their size should have to pay any form of money in order to find people who like them for who they are as people.

The following is my response to their questions regarding why I wanted to leave their site.

Why are you removing your profile?

I don’t think anyone should have to pay for love, or too try and find it! I did not realize when I signed up that I would not be able to do anything other then look at other profiles. I was unable to even read what a person sent me and that’s a real shame on your part.
BBW have a hard enough time meeting people who accept them for who they are, Why must sites like this take advantage of people like me…All in the name of making a buck. This made me sick and I will never recommend your site to anyone!

Are there any aspects of BBW Personals Plus that need improvement?

You need to give a little to get a little.
By forcing people to pay just makes for a money hungry site. You showed by doing this that your not about finding the right people for your site, just the desperate and extremely lonely ones. You should be ashamed for praying on these people.

And there ya have it! after deleting my account they had the balls to ask me to stay and they would give me a 2 for 1 deal. The nerve of some of these sites.

My advice to anyone who chooses to step onto a dating site to meet new people (for whatever reason)
NEVER pay! you should never have to pay someone to find love, if love is out there for you it’s out there free of charge! You just need to be looking.

The Government is helping people get fat!

Your probably wondering why I am making such a statement.
 
In 2007 in Ontario alone a reported 2.8 million people are living below the poverty line!
This number is astounding, and the thought of knowing I am one of them is hard to swallow.
Sure I do not live on the street, I am lucky I have a roof over my head and cloths on my back, there are many who don’t.
 
The government is quick to throw every advertisement at you that they can about getting fit, staying in shape, losing weight, getting healthy, eating right and everything that can go wrong if you do not get healthy.
 
But they are also the ones that are quick to slam the door in your face when you ask for help to get healthy!
I can’t afford a gym membership, yet alone cooking great tasting healthy meals at home.
I am on the poor mans diet, Mac and Cheese, wieners and PB & J.
 
So how the heck am I suppose to “get healthy” if every time I try to get some form of help a door gets slammed in my face?
 
My advice to the government and ad agencies all over the world, Shut the hell up!
Unless your willing to HELP those who are willing and able to get the help they need and provide more ways for low income families or single people to go out there and get that help you all need to keep your pie holes shut!
Because the fact is, that with 2.8 MILLION people being poor the odds are that out of that number at least 2 million of them are gonna have some sort of eating problem.
Why because they can NOT afford to live any other way, And you the government are to blame for that.
This is your country, you are suppose to take care of it’s people not make them feel worse for something that very well might be out of their control.
 
Take it from me, I have tried MANY times to get help with my weight issues and each time a door was slammed in my face because I could not AFFORD to pay for these treatments, and food and pills etc.

Doctors can be idiots!

It occurred to me this week just how much of an idiot my doctor is.
I’ve been going to her for the last decade complaining of back problems, hip problems, foot problems and ankle problems.
She finally had the nerve to tell me NOW that it’s probably because I am fat that I am hurting.
Now here is why I believe she is a total and utter idiot:
1st – I was actually a LOT thinner when I first complained of pain, she even went so far as to send me to physio. I asked the physiotherapist if my weight had ANYTHING to do with my problems his quick reply No, That it may be causing an aggravation but it’s not the actual cause.
Even as I got larger I had to re go back to physio and I asked a 2nd time to a different therapist, She even said no.
2nd – She just diagnosed me with Fybromyalgia, So which is it? Fybro or Fat?? I am sure it can be a bit of both and if it is then you should say that not just come out with well your fat!
So needless to say I think my doctor is a total idiot and I think the Canadian Health Care System are even BIGGER idiots, but that I should save for a whole new post!
Got a doctor that sucks? I wanna hear your story..leave me a comment.

Lisa Marie Presley Sues!!

Yes you heard right!! Lisa Marie Presley, Daughter of legendary singer Elvis Presley is suing a UK tabloid for making remarks about her weight and calling her fat!

The tabloid had also made comments stating she was headed down the same path as her father.

Through the tabloids blatant disregard for her privacy Lisa was force to make a private subject public.
She is in fact pregnant and not fat!

First I have to say…Lisa it wouldn’t even matter if you were fat! you’d still be the spitting image of your father and people are going to adore you for that anyway.
Secondly, Elvis did NOT die because he was FAT! and those who are actual fans of his actually know that and I am sure they are just as pissed about this comment from the tabloid insinuation that his being over weight is what killed him.

I think more celebrities need to start suing the ass’s off these papers for writing such nasty stuff, The more people that stand up and say enough is enough the more likely they will be to get it into their heads that it does no one any good to be spreading hate like that!

Big Girl..You are Beautiful!

So I managed to muster up the courage to try a new pair of jeans on today, They were a size 18.
I could still probably squeeze myself into a 16 but I am not into the whole not breathing thing anymore.

I was sad at first, it was for a split second. Then I realized how good I looked in them and wasn’t so bothered.
It helped that a really hot guy checked me out too. *laughs*

Isn’t it great, something as simple as a small stare from someone of the opposite sex can make a whole day. :)

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