May 27, 2008 at 9:48 am (me, stupid people, whatever)
Tags: dating, love, money, websites
Ok so I fell for it, I went and joined a BBW (even though I hate that term) dating site.
Trying to meet some new people and connect with others like myself, Sadly I have removed my account the very day I created it!
Why? oohh I will tell you why.
They wanted me to pay $10 a month to find compatible people to meet and chat with.
I couldn’t even look at any mail I was receiving because they wanted me to PAY money to do that.
I do not think ANYONE no matter what their size should have to pay any form of money in order to find people who like them for who they are as people.
The following is my response to their questions regarding why I wanted to leave their site.
Why are you removing your profile?
I don’t think anyone should have to pay for love, or too try and find it! I did not realize when I signed up that I would not be able to do anything other then look at other profiles. I was unable to even read what a person sent me and that’s a real shame on your part.
BBW have a hard enough time meeting people who accept them for who they are, Why must sites like this take advantage of people like me…All in the name of making a buck. This made me sick and I will never recommend your site to anyone!
Are there any aspects of BBW Personals Plus that need improvement?
You need to give a little to get a little.
By forcing people to pay just makes for a money hungry site. You showed by doing this that your not about finding the right people for your site, just the desperate and extremely lonely ones. You should be ashamed for praying on these people.
And there ya have it! after deleting my account they had the balls to ask me to stay and they would give me a 2 for 1 deal. The nerve of some of these sites.
My advice to anyone who chooses to step onto a dating site to meet new people (for whatever reason)
NEVER pay! you should never have to pay someone to find love, if love is out there for you it’s out there free of charge! You just need to be looking.
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November 8, 2007 at 7:24 pm (Awesome People, me, whatever, words to live by)
Tags: fat girls, love, peace, rants, respect
If fat women ruled the world there would be so much more peace, Lets face it fat women really know how to show the love.
There would be more love in this world then there would be violence, and it would end so much suffering.
Fat women see everyday as a gift, and bring love and laughter to everything we touch.
So really would it be so bad it fat women ruled the world? Nah!
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August 23, 2007 at 1:15 am (whatever)
I spoke earlier about people putting label’s on themselves even when the label is WAY OFF!
The media continues to tell people that unless you are a size 3 that must mean your fat, there for fat means ugly.
Let me tell you FAT does NOT mean Ugly!
Once people get that through their heads, this world can start to become a much more friendly place!
So I now move to the Definitions portion of my lovely blog where I will attempt to help you thy readers better label yourself, I mean come on we all do it, but if we are going to do it all the time we might as well be getting it right..Right?
First head to your doctor to find out just what your weight (healthy) should be, Once that’s done return here for your label.
If you are 10 to 20 pounds over your max weight your label is: Chubby
If you are 25 to 45 pounds over your max weight your label is: Curvy
If your 50 to 70 pounds over your max weight your label is: Fat
If your 75 to 100 pounds over your max weight your label is: Obese
Anything more then that my dear friends and your headed towards heart failure and a doctor’s medical help would be the smartest way for you to be going to get on the road to saving yourself.
But for label’s sake yours would be: Morbidly Obese
So to conclude I will state, do not be ashamed of who you are and add a label to yourself that you know to be incorrect.
If your Chubby, Stop calling yourself fat because you know deep down it could be a lot worse.
And if your obese, please refrain from the term curvy in the long run it’s just a lie and people will judge you more fairly if your just up front about it.
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August 8, 2007 at 3:28 am (whatever)
BBW, Stands for Big Beautiful Women for those of you who had no clue.
I just wanted to shed a little light on how misused this term has become over the past few years.
Seem’s like every fat women in the world is now reffering to herself as BBW and honestly the term should not be used lightly.
There is a BIG difference between BBW and flat out FAT! and if your fat just get over it and stop lying to yourself and say “Yes I am FAT..FAT FAT FAT!”
Just like the word “Curvy” is being over used through out the internet and other media outlets.
I am sorry to say this but “Curvy” is not a size 20!
Stop putting inapropiate lables on yourself and learn to accept who you are as a person, Don’t go on a dating site and put “BBW or Curvy or More to Love” if your 100 pounds over weight, because that would be a lie.
And to start a relationship off with a lie can only END that relationship before it even begins.
If someone is NOT willing to accept you for being fat then screw them, they were not someone you wanted in your life to begin with!
I am fat, and I do not pretend to be anything other then that. If people do not like me or do not want to take the time to get to know the person that I am, then I will be done with them. One less person for me to worry about!
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